Maturity is to consistently feed the right side and bring out the best in others. Always bring the positive of the other person to the surface. The only way to build beautiful relationships is by making others feel beautiful when they are with you.
Continued from Monday
- Maturity is to leave your yesterdays to yesterdays. Never view your today in the relationship through the mistakes of yesterday. As humans, we will err. It is immature to maintain a database of mistakes. Forgive, let go and forget. You don’t have to prove anything. You need peace and for your peace you need peaceful relationships. Always draw a line to the past and see your today with fresh eyes. Come from a clean slate.
- Maturity is to know you cannot keep threatening the relationship that you want to build. ” If you want, you can leave.”. ” If you do this again, I may quit.” ” If you have so much problem with me, they why not we part ways.” You can’t keep threatening a relationship and expect it to become better. Leave this thought that you can leave. The striving is to integrate your world and my world into our world, and not to segment our world into your world and my world.
- Maturity is in your willingness to be the first to take the initiative. Maturity is not holding the transparency that was practiced during good time against the person during the bad times. Maturity is in not asking the other to alter their likes and dislikes for you to love them. And the list is endless……
A mature relationship is one when the other person feels as secure as being in the womb of their mother when they are with you. If you can be that even to one person, you are a great blessing, for, in your presence, someone would not even miss God.
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